Merry Christmas!

Everybody says that Christmas should be spent with your most loved ones! I look back at last year and I realize how much smaller my group of loved ones has become and I’m so grateful for that.

I used to think that the more people you had in your life the more loved you were but throughout this year I’ve learned that I was wrong. A lot of people are no longer s part of my life and I couldn’t have been happier.

At first it seemed as if I had lost people that were so important to me because of how close we were and then I realized how much it didn’t matter. Specially because I had realized that I now had people in my life that only brought positivity and who were genuinely there when I need them to be. Even to this day I’m realizing that there still so many people in my life who I no longer want around and I’m working on distancing myself from them. 

The older you get the more you realize that you’re done trying to force friendships, chasing friends down to spend time with one another, and having to deal with people who are only negative. Loosing people will be the only way for you to realize that people leave your life for a reason because of the simple idea that things happens for a reason. You’ll learn to not be a lot more smarter when allowing people into your personal life and learn to cut unhealthy ties.